Rather than insulate ourselves with the false notion that it could never happen to me, we must learn to live with the uncertainties, the allures, the attractions, the fantasies—both our own and our partners’. Couples who feel free to talk honestly about their desires, even when they are not directed at each other, paradoxically become closer.
Perel, Esther. The State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity (p. 298). (Function). Kindle Edition.
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